Tag Archives: Couples

Lovers, Losers and Computers

As part of my work I talk to a lot of people who are seeking romantic partners. Conversations around dating almost always include a discussion of where to meet potential partners which leads to a discussion about online dating. One … Continue reading

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Two Therapists Talking: Rules vs Expectations

In this episode of Two Therapists Talking, Jasmine St. John and I talk about the difference between acting in ways that fit with your partners expectations versus requiring lots of rules to micromanage behavior. If you have questions or a … Continue reading

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What You Don’t Know Might Hurt…

Last week I talked about doing relationships your own way, the way that works for everyone involved, and how so many other people seem intent on telling you the “right”way to do it. This week I want to talk about another … Continue reading

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Relationships – The Right Way, The Wrong Way, Your Way

There are a lot of people that are happy to tell you the right way and wrong way to have a relationship. They be happy to tell you definitively that this is the way, the only way, to do a relationship correctly. … Continue reading

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Special Book Offer!

For a limited time you have the opportunity to purchase Stephany Ekman’s Why She Won’t Sleep With You Anymore at a special price. For the next week the price will be reduced. But here’s the trick – the sooner you buy … Continue reading

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Two Therapists Talking: Pornography

In this episode of Two Therapists Talking, Jasmine St. John and I talk about pornography and how it can be used in positive ways in relationships. If you have questions or a topic you’d like to hear us discuss, write … Continue reading

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Get Your Head In The Game…

I often talk to my clients about being “too heady.” By that I mean many people have become disconnected from their bodies and spend too much time thinking and worrying. When we get that way we don’t feel things. We … Continue reading

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