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Tag Archives: Couples
Lovers, Losers and Computers
As part of my work I talk to a lot of people who are seeking romantic partners. Conversations around dating almost always include a discussion of where to meet potential partners which leads to a discussion about online dating. One … Continue reading
Posted in Awen Therapy, Dating, Jay Blevins, MFT, Online Dating, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Therapy
Tagged Advice, Awen Therapy, Couples, Dating, Jay Blevins, Online Dating, Partners, Relationships, Therapy
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Two Therapists Talking: Rules vs Expectations
In this episode of Two Therapists Talking, Jasmine St. John and I talk about the difference between acting in ways that fit with your partners expectations versus requiring lots of rules to micromanage behavior. If you have questions or a … Continue reading
Posted in Awen Therapy, Expectations, Jasmine St. John, Jay Blevins, JSJ Therapy, MFT, Polyamory, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Rules, Therapy, Two Therapists Talking, Uncategorized
Tagged Advice, Awen Therapy, Communication, Couples, Emotions, Expectations, Jasmine St. John, Jay Blevins, JSJ Therapy, MFT, Monogamy, Non-monogamy, Partners, Relationships, Rules, Two Therapists Talking
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What You Don’t Know Might Hurt…
Last week I talked about doing relationships your own way, the way that works for everyone involved, and how so many other people seem intent on telling you the “right”way to do it. This week I want to talk about another … Continue reading
Posted in Awen Therapy, Communication, Couples, Couples Therapy, Emotions, Expectations, Jay Blevins, MFT, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Therapy
Tagged Awen Therapy, Communication, Couples, Expectations, Jay Blevins, MFT, patterns, Perspective, Relationships, Therapy
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Relationships – The Right Way, The Wrong Way, Your Way
There are a lot of people that are happy to tell you the right way and wrong way to have a relationship. They be happy to tell you definitively that this is the way, the only way, to do a relationship correctly. … Continue reading
Posted in Awen Therapy, Jay Blevins, MFT, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Right Way, Therapy, Wrong Way, Your Way
Tagged Awen Therapy, Couples, Expectations, Jay Blevins, Relationships, Therapy
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Special Book Offer!
For a limited time you have the opportunity to purchase Stephany Ekman’s Why She Won’t Sleep With You Anymore at a special price. For the next week the price will be reduced. But here’s the trick – the sooner you buy … Continue reading
Posted in Awen Therapy, Book Review, Couples, Jasmine St. John, Jay Blevins, JSJ Therapy, MFT, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Sex, Stephany Ekman, Therapy
Tagged Awen Therapy, Book Review, Couples, Expectations, Jasmine St. John, Jay Blevins, JSJ Therapy, Relationships, Sex, Stephany Ekman, Two Therapists Talking, Understanding, Vulnerability
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Two Therapists Talking: Pornography
In this episode of Two Therapists Talking, Jasmine St. John and I talk about pornography and how it can be used in positive ways in relationships. If you have questions or a topic you’d like to hear us discuss, write … Continue reading
Posted in Advice, Awen Therapy, Fantasies, Feminist Porn, Jasmine St. John, Jay Blevins, JSJ Therapy, MFT, Porn, Pornography, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Sex, Therapy, Two Therapists Talking, Uncategorized
Tagged Advice, Awen Therapy, Couples, Fantasies, Jasmine St. John, Jay Blevins, JSJ Therapy, MFT, Porn, Relationships, Sex, Therapy, Two Therapists Talking
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Get Your Head In The Game…
I often talk to my clients about being “too heady.” By that I mean many people have become disconnected from their bodies and spend too much time thinking and worrying. When we get that way we don’t feel things. We … Continue reading
Posted in Advice, Awen Therapy, Emotions, Jay Blevins, MFT, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Sex, Therapy
Tagged Advice, Awen Therapy, Couples, Jay Blevins, MFT, Relationships, Sex
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Two Therapists Talking: Hating Your Partner
In this episode of Two Therapists Talking, Jasmine St. John and I talk about the idea that there may be times you dislike or even hate your partner…and the fact that it is okay. If you have questions or a … Continue reading
Posted in Awen Therapy, Dislike, Emotions, Gottman, Hate, Jasmine St. John, Jay Blevins, JSJ Therapy, MFT, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Repair, Therapy, Uncategorized
Tagged Anger, Awen Therapy, Couples, Emotions, Hate, Jasmine St. John, Jay Blevins, John Gottman, JSJ Therapy, MFT, Relationships, Repair, Therapy, Two Therapists Talking
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Two Therapists Talking: An Interview with Kathy Labriola
In this episode of Two Therapists Talking, Jasmine St. John and I talk with Kathy Labriola, author of The Jealousy Workbook and Love In Abundance. You can purchase either of her books here. If you have questions or a topic … Continue reading
Posted in Advice, Awen Therapy, Coveting, Emotions, Envy, Fear, Jasmine St. John, Jay Blevins, Jealousy, JSJ Therapy, Kathy Labriola, Love in Abundance, MFT, Monogamy, Non-Monogamy, Polyamory, Psychotherapy, Relationships, The Jealousy Workbook, Therapy, Two Therapists Talking, Uncategorized
Tagged Advice, Alternative Sexuality, Awen Therapy, Book Review, Change, Communication, Connection, Couples, Coveting, Desire, Emotions, Envy, Expectations, Fear, Interview, Jasmine St. John, Jay Blevins, JSJ Therapy, Kathy Labriola, Love in Abundance, MFT, Non-monogamy, Perspective, Polyamory, Relationships, Risk, The Jealousy Workbook, Therapy, Two Therapists Talking, Vulnerability
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Two Therapists Talking: Relationships Take Effort
In this episode of Two Therapists Talking, Jasmine St. John and I talk about the idea that people often feel that if a relationship is “meant to be” it shouldn’t take effort. If you have questions or a topic you’d … Continue reading
Posted in Advice, Awen Therapy, Jasmine St. John, Jay Blevins, JSJ Therapy, MFT, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Therapy, Two Therapists Talking, Uncategorized, Work
Tagged Awen Therapy, Couples, Effort, Investment, Jasmine St. John, Jay Blevins, JSJ Therapy, MFT, Relationships, Therapy, Two Therapists Talking, Work
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