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Tag Archives: Connection
Two Therapists Talking: Sharing What Makes Us Feel Loved
In this episode of Two Therapists Talking, Jasmine St. John and I talk about the importance of sharing with others what it is that makes you feel loved. If you have questions or a topic you’d like to hear us … Continue reading
Posted in Advice, Awen Therapy, Communication, Couples, Emotions, Jasmine St. John, Jay Blevins, JSJ Therapy, Love, MFT, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Therapy, Two Therapists Talking, Uncategorized
Tagged Awen Therapy, Communication, Connection, Emotions, Jasmine St. John, Jay Blevins, JSJ Therapy, Love, Mind Reading, Relationships, Therapy, Two Therapists Talking, Understanding
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Two Therapists Talking: Sex Addiction
In this episode of Two Therapists Talking, Jasmine St. John and I talk about our views on sex addiction. If you have questions or a topic you’d like to hear us discuss, write us at TwoTherapistsTalking@gmail.com.
Posted in Advice, Awen Therapy, David Ley, Emotions, Jasmine St. John, Jay Blevins, JSJ Therapy, MFT, Psychotherapy, Sex, Sex Addiction, The Myth of Sex Addiction, Therapy, Two Therapists Talking, Uncategorized
Tagged Advice, Awen Therapy, Connection, Emotions, Jasmine St. John, Jay Blevins, JSJ Therapy, MFT, Research, Sex, Sex Addiction, Therapy, Two Therapists Talking
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Keys to the Kingdom…
I talk a lot about boundaries – setting them, enforcing them, adjusting them. Unfortunately when people hear the word boundaries they often imagine a thick impenetrable wall surrounding them. In response, therapists say that boundaries should be flexible. I struggle with … Continue reading
Posted in Awen Therapy, Boundaries, Castle, Connection, Fexibility, Jay Blevins, MFT, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Therapy, Trust, Vulnerability
Tagged Awen Therapy, Boundaries, Connection, Doors, Experience, Flexibility, Jay Blevins, MFT, Perspective, Relationships, Testing, Therapy, Trust, Vulnerability
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Am I Obligated to be Loyal?
Loyalty is a trait that most of us value a great deal. To me, loyalty is something that is earned. We become loyal to another person for different reasons. For me it is when there actions match my core values … Continue reading
Posted in Awen Therapy, Change, Emotions, Jay Blevins, Loyalty, MFT, Obligation, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Therapy
Tagged Awen Therapy, Connection, Friendship, Jay Blevins, Loyalty, Obligation, Relationships, Therapy, Trust
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Two Therapists Talking: What is Couples Therapy Like?
In this episode of Two Therapists Talking, Jasmine St. John and I discuss what couples therapy is like. If you have questions or a topic you’d like to hear us discuss, write us at TwoTherapistsTalking@gmail.com.
Posted in Advice, Awen Therapy, Couples, Couples Therapy, Jasmine St. John, Jay Blevins, JSJ Therapy, MFT, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Therapy
Tagged Advice, Awen Therapy, Communication, Connection, Couples, Couples Therapy, Jasmine St. John, Jay Blevins, JSJ Therapy, MFT, Relationships, Therapy, Two Therapists Talking
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When Different Isn’t Different…
One comment I hear from clients is that they feel “different from everyone else.” Some describe it as feeling “weird.” When they go on to talk about why this is a problem it is almost always a variation of the … Continue reading
Posted in Acceptance, Awen Therapy, Connection, Fear, Jay Blevins, MFT, Perspectives, Psychotherapy, Sense of Self, Therapy, Uncategorized, Vulnerability
Tagged A Zillion Dollar Comics, Anxiety, Awen Therapy, Connection, Difference, Fear, Jay Blevins, MFT, Self-Esteem, Therapy, Vulnerability
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How do I love thee? Let me count the ways…
When I work with couples I often ask them if they love each other. With the exception of those that are there for help navigating the end of their relationship, they almost always say yes. That’s the answer I would … Continue reading
Posted in Challenges, Connection, Couples, Desire, Jay Blevins, Love, MFT, Perspectives, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Sharing, Therapy
Tagged Awen Therapy, Connection, Couples, Desire, Emotions, Jay Blevins, MFT, Perspective, Reasons, Relationships, Strength, Therapy, Why
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Differences in Sexual Desire…
I ran across a great blog post by Dr. Justin J. Lehmiller. He wrote about a recent article in the Wall Street Journal entitled “How often should married couples have sex? What happens when he says ‘more’ and she says ‘no?” There was … Continue reading
Posted in Awen Therapy, Couples, Desire, Dr. Justin J. Lehmiller, Emily Shire, Jezebel, Kat Stoeffel, MFT, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Sex, The Cut, The Week, Therapy, Wall Street Journal, WSJ
Tagged Awen Therapy, Communication, Connection, Couples, Desire, Dr. Justin J. Lehmiller, Elizabeth Bernstein, Emily Shire, Jay Blevins, Jezebel, Kat Stoeffel, MFT, Relationships, Sex, The Cut, The Week, Therapy, Wall Street Journal, WSJ
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Doing It When You Don’t Want To…
I enjoy writing this blog. Well, most weeks. I love to think about things that happen in therapy and in life. I love to draw connections between them. I love to see how perspectives on a situation change if you … Continue reading
Posted in Awen Therapy, Choices, Decisions, MFT, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Therapy
Tagged Awen Therapy, Connection, Couples, Jay Blevins, MFT, Relationships, Therapy
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When Perspectives Vary…
Many clients come to see me about relationship issues. The types of relationships vary. They may be romantic or family or work or any number of other types of relationships. Despite being different in nature they have many things in … Continue reading
Posted in Awen Therapy, Challenges, Change, Compassion, Connection, Emotions, MFT, Perspectives, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Therapy, Understanding
Tagged Awen Therapy, Compassion, Connection, MFT, Perspective, Relationships, Therapy, Understanding
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