Category Archives: Understanding

What They Won’t Do For Me…

So many people come to see me and are frustrated that their partner isn’t giving them something that is being asked for over and over. I’m not talking about physical objects. I’m talking about certain behaviors and actions. They don’t … Continue reading

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Understanding vs. Agreeing With

A lot of my work is centered around alternative sexuality. That means, among other things, kinky sex…like the stuff from Fifty Shades of Grey. (Note: I use that example because of its popularity. I am very much not a fan … Continue reading

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Thought for the Week…

It can be easy to judge others quickly based on what we first see. We forget that we are all complex and multi-faceted. While people may behave in ways we don’t like, it doesn’t mean that is all there is to … Continue reading

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Two Therapists Talking: What to do When You Get a Panic Attack

In this episode of Two Therapists Talking, Jasmine St. John and I talk about some strategies for responding to panic attacks. If you have questions or a topic you’d like to hear us discuss, write us at TwoTherapistsTalking@gmail.com.

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Two Therapists Talking: An Interview with Stephany Ekman

In this episode of Two Therapists Talking, Jasmine St. John and I talk with Stephany Ekman, author of Why She Won’t Sleep With You Anymore* -*And How You Can Change That – Fast! If you have questions or a topic you’d … Continue reading

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Two Therapists Talking: The Importance of Consistency Between Actions and Words

In this episode of Two Therapists Talking, Jasmine St. John and I talk about why it is important that your actions match your words. If you have questions or a topic you’d like to hear us discuss, write us at … Continue reading

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Two Therapists Talking: Adult Differentiation

In this episode of Two Therapists Talking, Jasmine St. John and I talk about differentiating from our family of origin as adults. If you have questions or a topic you’d like to hear us discuss, write us at TwoTherapistsTalking@gmail.com.

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