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Monthly Archives: May 2014
What Others Had To Say This Week
Interesting blog posts and news stories from the past week… I don’t feel male and I don’t feel female, La Roux opens up about her sexuality – Liam Johnson Healthy guilt vs toxic guilt – Patrick McCurry Feelings Are About Love – … Continue reading
Posted in Advice, Awen Therapy, Bipolar, Change, Creativity, Emotions, Jay Blevins, MFT, Monogamy, Non-Monogamy, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Stress, Therapy
Tagged Advice, Anxiety, Awen Therapy, Birth Control, Boundaries, Change, Communication, Creativity, Depression, Empathy, Friends, girls, Jay Blevins, MFT, Relationships, Sex, Stress, Therapy, Understanding, Vulnerability
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Two Therapists Talking: Suicidal Thoughts
In this episode of Two Therapists Talking, Jasmine St. John and I talk about suicidal thoughts an how some level of them are more common than you may think. If you have questions or a topic you’d like to hear us … Continue reading
Posted in Acceptance, Awen Therapy, Inhibitions, Jasmine St. John, Jay Blevins, JSJ Therapy, LGBT, MFT, NFL, Psychotherapy, Therapy, Two Therapists Talking
Tagged Acceptance, Advice, Alternative Sexuality, Awen Therapy, Compassion, Jasmine St. John, Jay Blevins, JSJ Therapy, suicidal thoughts, Two Therapists Talking
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Tip of the Week – Listening to Ourselves
Those spontaneous, random thoughts that pop into your head during the day may be more than a distraction. New research out Carnegie Mellon University and Harvard Business School “suggest spontaneous thoughts can provide potent self-insight.” They also influence our decision making even more … Continue reading
Posted in Advice, Awen Therapy, Insight, Jay Blevins, Mental Health, MFT, Psychotherapy, Therapy, Thoughts
Tagged Advice, Awen Therapy, Insight, Jay Blevins, MFT, Spontaneous thought, Therapy, Thought
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Thought for the Week…Argue Better Not Louder
When we feel that our point isn’t being heard or understood it can be a natural reaction to say it more emphatically. Too often emphatically means saying it more loudly. Being heard during a disagreement usually isn’t about volume. It … Continue reading
Posted in Advice, Arguments, Awen Therapy, Identity, Jay Blevins, MFT, Psychotherapy, Therapy
Tagged Advice, Arguments, Awen Therapy, Being Heard, Desmond Tutu, Jay Blevins
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What Others Had To Say This Week
Interesting blog posts and news stories from the past week… How to Start Separating Yourself from a Codependent Relationship – Margarita Tartakovsky, M.S. The Three Questions You Should Ask to Think More Critically – Whitson Gordon Reading Between the Lines of Your Partner’s … Continue reading
Posted in Advice, Attraction, Awen Therapy, Change, Creativity, Emotions, Jay Blevins, Marriage, MFT, Monogamy, Non-Monogamy, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Smoking, Spooning, Therapy
Tagged Advice, Anxiety, Awen Therapy, Boundaries, Change, Communication, Creativity, Jay Blevins, MFT, Myths, Relationships, self talk, Sex, Smoking, Therapy, Understanding, Vulnerability
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Two Therapists Talking: Making Friends
In this episode of Two Therapists Talking, Jasmine St. John and I talk about how to make friends as an adult. If you have questions or a topic you’d like to hear us discuss, write us at TwoTherapistsTalking@gmail.com.
Posted in Advice, Awen Therapy, Change, Friends, Jasmine St. John, Jay Blevins, JSJ Therapy, Making Friends, MFT, Psychotherapy, Therapy, Two Therapists Talking, Uncategorized
Tagged Awen Therapy, Change, Friends, Jasmine St. John, Jay Blevins, JSJ Therapy, Making Friends, MFT, Therapy, Two Therapists Talking
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Tip of the Week – Eye Contact
The importance of eye contact in connection with others is nothing new. Recent research also found that both children and adults that avoid or are denied eye contact are more likely to suffer from “depression and feelings of isolation as well … Continue reading
Posted in Advice, Awen Therapy, Baylor University, Compassion, Connection, Depression, Emotions, Eye contact, Forgiveness, Jay Blevins, Mental Health, MFT, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Talking, Talking Out Loud, Therapy, Thoughts
Tagged Advice, Anxiety, Awen Therapy, callousness, Connection, Depression, eye contact, Jay Blevins, MFT, Therapy
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Lovers, Losers and Computers
As part of my work I talk to a lot of people who are seeking romantic partners. Conversations around dating almost always include a discussion of where to meet potential partners which leads to a discussion about online dating. One … Continue reading
Posted in Awen Therapy, Dating, Jay Blevins, MFT, Online Dating, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Therapy
Tagged Advice, Awen Therapy, Couples, Dating, Jay Blevins, Online Dating, Partners, Relationships, Therapy
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Thought for the Week…
Sometimes being happy is as simple as making room for happiness in our lives. When we hang on to hurt or pain or fear it begins to fill the spaces where happiness lives, lettings us believe that we can never be … Continue reading
Posted in Advice, Awen Therapy, Change, Emotions, Happiness, hurt, Jay Blevins, Letting Go, MFT, Pain, Psychotherapy, Therapy
Tagged Advice, Awen Therapy, Emotions, Happiness, Hurt, Jay Blevins, letting go, MFT, Past, Therapy
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What Others Had To Say This Week
Interesting blog posts and news stories from the past week… The Polyamorists Next Door – Elizabeth Sheff, Ph. D. Looking for Love Online – Jenny Seifert New York Police to Limit Seizing of Condoms in Prostitution Cases – Marc Santora … Continue reading
Posted in Advice, Awen Therapy, Bipolar, Change, Creativity, Emotions, Jay Blevins, Marriage, MFT, Monogamy, Non-Monogamy, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Stress, Therapy
Tagged Advice, Anxiety, Awen Therapy, Bipolar, Birth Control, Boundaries, Change, Communication, condoms, Creativity, Depression, Jay Blevins, marriage, MFT, Myths, Relationships, Research, Sex, Stress, Therapy, Understanding, Vulnerability
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