Monthly Archives: August 2013

Two Therapists Talking: Dealing with Differences in Levels of Sexual Desire

In this episode of Two Therapists Talking, Jasmine St. John and I discuss how we approach dealing with couples who have different sex drives. If you have questions or a topic you’d like to hear us discuss, write us at … Continue reading

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Two Therapists Talking: Being an Alt Sex Therapist

In this episode of Two Therapists Talking, Jasmine St. John and I discuss what it means when we say we are alt sex therapists. If you have questions or a topic you’d like to hear us discuss, write us at … Continue reading

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How do I love thee? Let me count the ways…

When I work with couples I often ask them if they love each other. With the exception of those that are there for help navigating the end of their relationship, they almost always say yes. That’s the answer I would … Continue reading

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Two Therapists Talking: The Problem with Perfectionism

In this episode of Two Therapists Talking, Jasmine St. John and I discuss how trying to be perfect can get in our way of being happy. If you have questions or a topic you’d like to hear us discuss, write … Continue reading

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Little Victories…

Celebrating accomplishments is fun. It might be when we complete a big project or win an award. It can be completing a degree or getting a job promotion. Maybe you are getting married or having a baby. Those, and many … Continue reading

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Two Therapists Talking: What Really Happens in Therapy?

In this episode of Two Therapists Talking, Jasmine St. John and I discuss some of the goals of therapy. If you have questions or a topic you’d like to hear us discuss, write us at TwoTherapistsTalking@gmail.com.

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What Doesn’t Kill Us…

Philosopher Friedrich Nietczsche said, “whatever doesn’t kill us makes us stronger.” That isn’t always the most comforting saying when we are going through something difficult. And while it may not always be true, there evidence that facing challenges can improve … Continue reading

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